Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Student Love Life Etiquette

Being a college student is not all about studying. There is a saying: “work without play will not pay”, so a little bit of inspiration will help you push through your goals. It’s okay to add romance in your studies as long as you know your limitations. Yes, you should know the student love life etiquette.



Here is what they call Romancing rules that you should follow:

Think about Money
Since you are a student, think wisely in going out on a date. If you’re date is going to pay for everything, go ahead! You can also find student deals at restaurants, just be resourceful and you’ll get a good one. If you can settle for the free ones like biking or preparing dinner at your place that would be fine. You can also agree to take turns to pay when you go out. Don’t be trapped paying the bill all the time because you allowance is not for dating.

Never Kiss and Tell
I know teenagers nowadays do silly things like dating with different guys, hanging out at weird places, fling, break up issues, etc. If you happened to date someone within your course or someone who is within the friend circle, you better shut your mouth because the tendency is something will bounce back to you. You don’t know what the other person will tell others about you so better not tell anyone what happened.

Drunken Moments
In a student life there will be a time you’ll be drunk either in a party or with someone else. And when you’re drunk, you do crazy things like shouting, laughing, falling, etc. This is the time you’ll meet guys. So, you better be nice to him to have a nice karma.

Potential in Close Proximity
Be careful with cuties in your course. It would be awkward to see them in lectures or seminars when you’ll end up with a break up. It’s because you know they’ve seen the whole “you” and you’ll feel uncomfortable. Also in joining clubs, stay away from officers of society clubs if possible because it will ruin your experience when you’ll just split later on.

Mates Issues
In universities, big friendship groups are usually formed. If you date someone that is within the group of friends, don’t let your friends be affected when you’ll have an argument. This will make you lose the whole group of friends if you both neglect them. You will not like to end a relationship too just because your ex has the same ones too. Don’t be part of a complicated situation.

Humpty Dumpty      
When you happen to have a fling and you’re ready to dump him, try to do it in a nice way. Don’t let him discover that you were not serious; just make some alibis to get over it. But do it in a way that it’s not obvious. Don’t make enemies because as I said you are in the same campus and anytime you’ll bump into him anywhere. He might be planning something bad against you and you’ll be embarrassed by the whole university. So beware of dirty games. You might fall into you own trap.

PDA Problems
You should not be doing public display of affection in the campus; just do those things in private. Who knows somebody is taking a video of the both of you for a campus sex scam. So, be alert and behave at school.

Every student has his naughty sides once in their lifetime. Just keep in mind that your main purpose to be in school is to study. Especially if you have a scholarship for college students, you must study harder to avail this through your education years. Know how to balance study and pleasure. Make it as your inspiration not destruction. Follow the student love life etiquette to avoid being in trouble.






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